Celebrating B'days ..a sin?

Happy b'day t..oo you..' "Wish you many more happy returns of the day...!!".."Long live..Mr.x"all these wishings,birthday cards,gifts and cakes happens in a man's birthday..but dear friends do you know you are really cursing the man instead of wishing his b'day!!??
Confused guyz lemme xplain...

According to Hindu customs..a man's soul after his death goes to heaven or hell. A Heaven..in books,in movies and also by our elders is projected as city of Angels..like a stay in five star hotel..luxurious..comfortable...and it is also said that for attaining heaven a man should be a do-gooder,forgiving,simple etc..etc..

A Hell is projected as a nasty place a torture zone where your body will be roasted in an oil pan,a prison where your eyes will be plucked..where you will be immersed in hot water and boiled alive..in other words a sinner will reach hell in no time after his death..and there you will be questioned by a judge,you will be given a punishment according to your sins on the earth..etc., etc.,

Absolute non-sense.

If a human is kind hearted,simple,peace loving person..he will no doubt reach heaven..not the kinda heaven projected in our books or by our elders.Here heaven means "oneness".."Oneness' with God.We often say when a good hearted man passes away.."oh Dear..may his soul rest in peace" isn't it?This means Oneness to God..no rebirth for the soul..becoming a part and parcel of Almighty.This is actually a heaven according to Hindu mythology.

If a human being,is a sinner..he will no doubt reach Hell..thatz he 'll be reborn in the earth.

He will suffer from worries..worries 'bout his children, marriage,job,health competiton..'bout everything,worrying is the greatest pain you get on earth,that too fully reserved for humans.Other than your worries you 've to perform your earthly duties..that too with out sin.You will be reborn if you commit sin once again.

So..why celebrate birth days..if your birth in this world is itself a punishment..why can't you skip your celebrations, and do something useful, like spending that day in an orphanage,praying God,donating blood something like that.

So..guys lets not celebrate our B'days..but do something that makes others happy!!!